I spend hours online looking for inspiration. I discovered this online wedding community and I liked it! It allowed me to read and write about weddings without getting my friends tired of my constant wedding babling. I get to find inspiration and ideas for our wedding. When I get enthausiastic I show my find to him, most of the time he just shoots it down. He does put in his two cents. He's good at that.
Good thing I have a whole lot of spirit, he doesn't get my mood down just like that.

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But despite of my secret weddingplanning pleasure I kind of wish he would take more of an interest in the wedding. It's supposed to be OUR day, not MY day. I want active participation. Is that too much to ask for? And now that I am voicing my wishes, I would also like to act that it would be wonderful if he showed this renewed wedding interest without my stimulation.
Is there anything I can do to increase his role in the weddingplanning? Or should I just accept this as a fact of life? What's your advice for me?
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